I'm AJ. I live in Oklahoma City, Oklahoma with my partner in crime, Bianca. When I'm not working I'm reading Philosophy, writing, watching Anthony Bourdain shows, drinking coffee or getting more tattoos.
For as long as I can remember, I have been much more masculine than feminine. However the vast majority of my friends (and all of my close friends) are fairly feminine women. Of course I have no issue with this, but occasionally this can present issues and complications that were unforeseen to me prior to coming out. There are three main issues; misgendering, dysphoria and a lack of male friends.
I’m almost 28 years old. I feel
like my professional clock is ticking away into the dark, dark abyss of
loserdom. My professional life aside, I feel like with every passing year the
more “me” I become. Does...